Rules of Sara: Social interaction with boys, with a view to pursue romantic interests.

1. Don’t over-analyse.
2. When a word, phrase or sentence can be construed in two ways, they always mean the good way.
3. Do not show any forward signs of open flirting, such as hand-holding, long eye stares and inane grinning, unless initiated by him.
4. No real kisses unless it is serious. Cheek kisses are acceptable.
5. Seriousness is determined by him.
6. Give him the benefit of the doubt unless shown or proven otherwise.
7. When faced with his friends, be friendly, but not too friendly; back him up, even if you think its funny; and don’t try to understand their jokes.
8. Do not talk too much. Small talk is acceptable, but rein it in sometimes, ok?
9. Try to find common points of interest without being nosy.
10. Find out as much as you can from non-him sources, but do it in a non-stalker-like way.